Men love men with good deepthroating skills. But it takes time and practice to develop the talent. Whether you’re a cocksucking pro looking to go further, or a toothy newbie, there’s a lot to get your head around when giving… well, head.
So here are our top 10 tips to get you deepthroating cock like the TIM pros.
Relax
Sounds obvious, but when you’re lying on your back with your head off the edge of the bed and a big dick is aiming straight for your throat it’s natural to tense up and panic a little. Calm down and relax yourself, imagine your mouth and throat are a wide-open tunnel built to take cock and cum. Then take a deep breath, think about those big balls bouncing off your face. Stay loose, stay open.
Sniff poppers
Poppers are an all-round assist in sex-relaxing. They loosen your throat and they get you good and ready. Have some on hand to give you that extra push if you need it. And when you’re going to service a real big dick, hand the little brown bottle to him: it’ll rev him up while getting his meat just a little bit less rock-hard. That makes swallowing it all just a bit easier, and it gives you the chance to get him rigid again while he’s buried balls-deep in your throat. You can stock up on the best poppers from the TIM Store.
Train your throat
Being able to deepthroat dick is a skill that will fade if you don’t keep using it. Do your best to suck dick every day. But sadly it might not be every day that a mouth-fucker is available to train your throat, so use what you can. Practice relaxing your throat and training your gag reflex with your toothbrush, or use a dildo. If you really want to go pro, get yourself a fucking machine and get on your knees in front of it.
If I can’t find someone to use my mouth, I’ll put myself in front of my fucking machine, head backed against the wall, and let it go to work, slow and steady. But don’t overdo it: machines don’t understand the words “stop” or “slow down”. Although that’s just the way I like it…
Mind your teeth
You know this one if you’ve ever had a cock in your mouth, but even the most experienced sucker-slaves need to be aware of their teeth. When things start getting rough it can be tempting to close your mouth a little, which is gonna end up scraping that cock. Be aware of what your mouth is doing, and keep it open wide.
Distract yourself
So it’s going well, and he’s in the throat-fucking zone. But you’re starting to struggle and it’s getting difficult. Distracting yourself can help with settling you back down. There’s all sorts of ways to take your mind off that growing need to gag or breathe – playing with your own dick is one, but personally I never touch myself while I’m sucking dick.
There are other ways: go deeper into your cocksucking trance, pay more attention to the sounds he’s making, sink into your cock-love and your man-worship. Last resort: hold out your hand to get the poppers and take a deep toke as a way to take a tiny breather. Some guys report that squeezing your left thumb inside your fist can strangely help suppress your gag reflex a little.
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Skip lunch
For the most comfortable experience for both parties, don’t eat before getting your throat pounded. For most people that means about 12 hours beforehand, but get to know your stomach and when it’s empty and you’ll be able to make proper choices.
Don’t go overboard though, make sure you stay healthy. Also, you’ll also want to resist the temptation to wolf down a ton of food after your session is over. When I’ve been throat fucked for a long time I find it harder to swallow for about an hour. And you don’t want to choke on your dinner because some guy’s fat cock has reamed out your throat and killed your ability to swallow like a normal human being.
Drink water
For around an hour before your session, only drink water or other clear fluids. Even with an empty stomach, a glass of coke or orange juice can be pretty unpleasant coming back up. Saliva and throat slime are inevitable and good when doing proper deepthroating.
Many tops love the slickness that slime gives their dicks as it slides in and out and the mess it makes of your face. By drinking only clear fluids, you’ll make sure it’s good and slimy while it doesn’t get gross.
Try positions
The best position will depend on you and the man’s cock. Is it curved? Straight? Long? Thick? Experiment with a few different angles and positions until he can piston-fuck your mouth with no interruptions.
Lying on your back with your head off the edge is often the best, but it can also make you feel less in control—–which is both good and bad. Try starting on your knees – my go-to starter position – and progress from there.
Breathe!
I get it, not being able to breathe because there’s a big dick in your throat can be scary. Time your breathing just right so that you can take a big breath in before your mouth is filled with meat. You can hold your breath for longer than you think, so stay calm and suck in that air when you can.
With practice, you’ll figure out how to breathe around his dick at certain points and keep yourself going forever. This is a serious skill and practicing with a dildo can really help you get it down.
Gagging is good
Gagging is inevitable. Gagging is good. Guys like to watch you struggle to swallow their thick cocks, feeling you gag and choke on it like a good boy. It can be tempting to feel self-conscious about the noises – don’t be, it just means you’re doing it right. And it’s not about you: it’s about his dick and his pleasure.
Gagging doesn’t have to be a show-stopper. A man can, and should, keep fucking your throat even if you gag. Just stay calm and enjoy the mouthful of meat. You’ll get your chance to breathe and calm down once he’s emptied his balls.
TELL US YOUR TIPS
Cocksucking is an art, and what I’ve listed here is only a start. What are your personal tips for good deepthroating? Do you have special moves you make with your tongue? Do you use your hands? Share your ideas, questions and tips in the comments below or by tweeting us @TIMPorn. Or get them directly to me at tommy@treasureislandmedia.com, I want to hear from you!
Make your practice sessions am experience. if you smoke weed, take a few hits, sniff some.poppers and play whatever music gets you in the mood. Music really makes all the difference and makes it more fun.
Gr8 Guide. I would add on #8 . . . be in tune to what is working for you donor as well as for you
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Love the tips. Some of them I naturally did while doing the training and going down on a real cock. Workin on getting as much of the 18″ double dildo down my throat. So far just a bit overhalf way
I stumbled across this and I’m feeling generous, so I’m going to share a couple tips from one of NYC’s best cocksuckers (myself).
To prepare for a long suck, practice by chewing a giant wad of gum (I keep a cup to spit in so I’m not swallowing a lot of gum juice). It’ll help strengthen your jaw and tongue muscles.
Put the tip of your tongue behind your top teeth, and see how far back along the roof of your mouth you can move it. Men go nuts when I go down on them, then use my tongue to tickle under their cockhead while they’re buried in my throat.
Keep a glass of liquor (I prefer scotch) with a lot of ice handy. If they’re getting close to cumming but you don’t want them to yet, take a big drink, swish it in your mouth, keep some in your mouth, and go down on him. The cold shock will distract him, then keep your mouth open and breathe on his dick. The alcohol evaporating is a sensation that will drive him crazy (but only maybe twice in a session).
Get your fingers wet and lightly tickle his balls and around his shaft.
If you like to be stoned but get dry mouth, take his dick down far enough to gag on it (just gag, not puke- and you may need to force that gag if he’s not huge) and it will get your saliva flowing immediately.
OK, that’s all. I can’t give away every trick.
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